Awukwazi ukubalekela impilo ngaphandle kokubhekana nokufa. Iphupho lokufa Kuyinto evamile, ikakhulukazi ngenxa yokungaqiniseki ngenxa yokungazi ukuthi yini esilindele emva kokuphila, nangenxa yokwesaba ukulahlekelwa abantu esibathandayo. Imvamisa kuyiphupho elibi elizokwenza ukuthi sivuke sijuluke futhi sishaye ngamandla. Ngokuphikisana nenkolelo evamile, ochwepheshe be-psychoanalysis yamaphupho abayinikezi incazelo engeyinhle ngaso sonke isikhathi. Sesha ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ngokufa Kuvamile kakhulu.
Ezimweni eziningi, ukuphupha ngomuntu efa kuhlobene uphawu lothando ubheke kulowo muntu, futhi awufuni ukuthi ahambe futhi ayeke ukumbona (unganweba lolu lwazi ngokufunda nge incazelo yokuphupha abangane abangasekho). Kungaba kakhulu ngomngani, osebenza naye, isihlobo, noma umlingani wakho. Izincazelo ze ukuphupha ngokufa Zihlukahlukene impela, futhi kuzodingeka ukuthi kubhekwe nezimo zomphuphi. Kubalulekile ukuthi unake ngisho nemininingwane emincane kakhulu, ngoba yonke into ibalulekile uma kukhulunywa ngokufeza ukutolika okunembe kakhudlwana. Lapha sizama ukukubonisa izinketho ezingabakhona kakhulu.
Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha nabafileyo?
Njengoba kungenzeka usuvele ufunde kuleli khasi mayelana nencazelo ye- amaphupho, umphuphi kuphela ongathola incazelo enembe kunazo zonke yephupho lakhe. Umongo wephupho lokufa, izimo zakho zangasese, kanye nesimo sakho sengqondo nendlela osabela ngayo lapho uvuka kuzokusiza ukwakhe lokho okubonile. Nini uphupha ukuthi kufe isihlobo, ibhekisela endleleni ozizwa ngayo ngalowo muntu othandekayo. Kusho ukuthi wesaba ukulahlekelwa yiyo ngasizathu simbe. Uyazi ukuthi ungumuntu obaluleke kakhulu nokuthi ukuswela kwakhe kungakwenza ube nempilo enosizi kakhulu, engenanjongo.
Amaphupho okufa avame kakhulu ahlobene ne ukushona kwendodana noma kwendodakazi, evela kumfowenu noma udadewethu, evela kubazali bethu, evela kubaba wakho, unyoko, umlingani wakho othandana naye, omalume, ogogo nomkhulu, abashana, abazala, abangane noma osebenza nabo osebenza nabo obabonga kakhulu.
Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi isihlobo sesishonile esikhathini esedlule, futhi kungenzeka isiphetho simbuyise "esaphila" ephusheni lakho ukuze ukwazi ukukhuluma naye isikhashana. EMpumalanga ukuphupha akusho okuningi, kepha impilo ikunikeza isikhathi esithe xaxa ukuze umkhumbule. La maphupho ajwayelekile kakhulu kogogo nomkhulu abangasekho.
Kusho ukuthini uma ngifa ngokwami ephusheni?
Asihlali siphupha ngomuntu obalulekile efa empilweni yethu, kwesinye isikhathi umvuni omubi ubonakala kithi.
Akusilo ibika elibi, ukude nalo. Ochwepheshe bakhuluma ngeqiniso lokuthi unikezwa amathuba amaningi owalahlekile, nokuthi ingqondo yakho ikwazisa ukuthi ngeke kuphinde kwenzeke.
Isikhathi soku shintsha indlela yokucabanga, yokujabulela okufunayo ngempela.
Kungenzeka ukuthi awunethezekile nomlingani wakho othandana naye, ukuthi umsebenzi onawo awuqedi ukukugcwalisa, noma ukuthi ucindezeleke kakhulu ukuthi uhambo nje lungakusiza unqamule ingqondo yakho.
Iphupho elihlanganisiwe: uphuphe sivukile. Kuyinkomba yokungazethembi, yokubheka phansi.
Kubalulekile ukuthi uqale ukubona ukuthi ubaluleke kangakanani, ugcine engqondweni konke ongakwenza, hhayi lokho ongakakuzuzi.
Kungaba futhi iphupho elijwayelekile uma uke wabona i-movie noma uchungechunge lwethelevishini, noma uma uke waxoxa ngezihloko ezihambisana nobuso bakho nabangane bakho. Kulokhu kokugcina, kuzoba nje iphupho elibi elingasoze liphinde lenzeke.
Ezinye izincazelo ngokufa
Uke waphupha ngokufa komuntu ongamazi? Ungaphupha ngokufa komuntu ongamazi nhlobo, kuthi ngakusasa usale ucabanga ukuthi kusho ukuthini lokhu.
Imvamisa kusho ukukhathalela kwakho umhlaba kanye nesiqondiso esithathayo. Kungaba yisikhathi sokuqala ukusebenzisana nezenzo ezithile zomphakathi.
Uma uphupha ngokufa kwengane noma ingane ... Uma unezingane, kuzosho ukuthi wesaba ukulahlekelwa yizo, kepha akusilo ibika elibi.
Uma kwenzeka ukuthi owesifazane ukhulelwe, noma uma ukhulelwe, kuzohlanganiswa nokwesaba ukulahlekelwa yingane. Unganweba imininingwane ngokufunda mayelana ukuphupha ingane y ukuphupha ngezingane.
Ngabe igazi lalivela ephusheni? Igazi lihlobene nokuziphatha okungafanele, noma ukukhashelwa ngumngani.
Uma wenze isenzo ongaziqhenyi ngaso, isazela sakho kodwa usasikhumbula ngesimo saleli phupho elibi. Ngokuvamile kufanekisela ukuziphatha okubi, noma ukukhaphela umngane.
Ingabe isilwane sakho sesifile? Uma inja yakho, ikati, unogwaja, i-hamster, noma esinye isilwane sesifile, ukuphupha ngokufa kusho ukuthi uyamkhumbuza, ukuthi ubumkhethe kakhulu futhi umkhumbula kakhulu.
Ukuphupha ngokufa engozini yomgwaqo ... Ochwepheshe bokuchazwa kwamaphupho bakhombisa ukuthi incazelo enokwenzeka kakhulu yalesi simo ihlobene nezinkinga zomsebenzi: isibonelo, ungalahlekelwa ngumsebenzi.
Kufanele ukhulume ngokushesha nomphathi wakho, noma umngani omethembayo, ukukuqinisekisa futhi wenze uhlelo ngalokho ozokwenza.
Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi uphupha ngengozi uma usuzothatha uhambo (kodwa ngeke kusho ukuthi kukhona okubi okuzokwenzeka phakathi nayo).
Ngabe uzozibulala ephusheni? Uma ephusheni lakho lokuzibulala, kuyindlela embi, inkomba yokuthi uhola indlela yokuphila engakufezi.
Ukuma kokuzibulala "ukukhala kosizo" kusuka ebuchosheni bakho ukushintsha impilo oyiphilayo. Kuzoba yisikhathi sokwethula ushintsho olukhulu olwenza ujabule, lokho kukwenza uzizwe ugcwalisekile futhi ucabange ukuthi impilo ikufanele ngempela.
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