Kulula ukuphupha ngezintaba-mlilo Uma uke wabona i-movie lapho kuvela khona ukuqhuma, uma usanda kubona idokhumentari emayelana nentaba-mlilo noma ufunde incwadi ehlobene lapho udaka lugeze khona idolobha.
Kodwa-ke, futhi ungaba namaphupho ngezintaba-mlilo ngaphandle kwesizathu, ngoba ukwazi okungapheli kukuthumela umlayezo mayelana nemizwa yakho nezinye izingxenye zempilo yakho okufanele uzinake.
Incazelo yokuphupha ngezintaba-mlilo
Okokuqala, okudingeka ukwenze ukukhumbula yonke imininingwane yalokho okuphuphe. Kwakungu- intabamlilo esebenzayo noma elele? Ingabe ukuqhuma kwaba namandla kakhulu? Ingabe kubangele i- umlilo? Ingabe kwakuyisakhiwo esikhulu noma esincane se-geological? Ngabe umagma owavela emgodini wentaba-mlilo wawubangela noma yimuphi umonakalo kuwe noma kothandekayo?
Ochwepheshe be-Oneirology bathi, ngokwesibonelo, intaba-mlilo eqhumayo imelela imizwa yengcindezelo ongeke usakwazi ukuyithatha, ukuthi udinga ukusho okwanele kumbhedo okukuthinta kakhulu. Yilokho okubangela ukuqubuka kwakhe, okukhombisa intukuthelo ozoyikhulula ngemuva kwesikhathi eside uthule. Ukufutheka okukhiphayo akukwenzi uqaphele ngezenzo zakho.
Leli phupho lingafana iphupho lokuqhuma noma nge ibhomu elizoqhuma. Esikhundleni salokho, intaba-mlilo elele ibhekise ekubekezeleni kwakho.
Akusona isikhathi sokusho okucabangayo ngaphambi kokuthi uqede ukuqhuma? Ingabe ulawula izifiso ezikwenza ungalali? Khuluma nabangani ukuhambisa imizwa yakho.
Kodwa-ke, ngokuya ngomongo, kunamaphupho amaningi okungenzeka ngomsebenzi wentaba-mlilo. Nazi izincazelo ezivame kakhulu.
Okunye ukutolika ngamaphupho ngentaba-mlilo nomsebenzi wayo wentaba-mlilo
Uma ulinda umuzwa wokuthi usuzoqhuma ngoba awukwazi ukuwuthatha, kungenzeka lokho uphupha intaba-mlilo eqhuma mdala kakhulu.
Ususondele kubangele ukujika okubalulekile empilweni yakho lokho kuzoba nemiphumela, imicimbi ezoletha izinkinga ezinkulu noma impumelelo enkulu.
Ngabe uzohlukana nentombi yakho ukuze uqale ubudlelwano obusha? Ngabe ufuna ukuyeka umsebenzi wakho ngoba awukwazi ukumela umphathi wakho? Ngabe uhlangabezana nezikhathi zezinkinga zomnotho ekhaya futhi ukukhokha izikweletu kuyinkimbinkimbi?
Phupha ngokulala kwentaba-mlilo. Umzuzwana wokuthula okuzodala isiphepho.
Ingabe uthola umbono wokuthi umcimbi osondelayo uzokwephula ukuthula? Ngabe ulinde umphumela wokuhlolwa okuthile kwemitholampilo? Awuqinisekile ukuthi uzophasa isivivinyo?
Ungalindeli izindaba ezimbi, ezizofika uma kufanele. Ukuphelelwa yithemba akuholeli ndawo futhi noma yisiphi isimo singaguqulwa, ngaphandle kokufa.
Manje uzokwazi icala lephupho uCelia ayeliphila.
UCelia waphupha ukuthi wabona intaba-mlilo eqhumayo eqhele ngamakhilomitha ambalwa, ngakho-ke impilo yakhe yayingekho engcupheni.
Ngemuva kokuhlaziya iphupho lakhe, uCelia wabona ukuthi ubhekene nesikhathi sokukhathazeka nokungezwani ekolishi.
Abazali bakhe babi kakhulu futhi bahlala belindele okuhle kuye, okwadala ukukhathazeka okwakhula ngaphakathi kuye.
Kodwa-ke, iqiniso lokuthi uzizwa ephephile kulentaba-mlilo lichazwa kanjalo, naphezu kwengcindezi abazali bakhe abamfaka kuyo, izivivinyo zakhe zokugcina zihambe kahle futhi uzothola isinxephezelo ngemizamo yakhe.
Ekuphetheni, amaphupho ngezintaba-mlilo ahlotshaniswa ikakhulu nesimo somzwelo. Abantu abanalezi zinhlobo zamaphupho amabi bavame ukudlula esikhathini se-bipolarity.
Noma ngabe usuyitholile enye ingxenye yakho (usuka ekuthuleni uye ekusebenzeni kahle nasekuthokozeni, ngakho-ke ungabona ukuqhuma kwentaba-mlilo), noma uma uvele wahlukana nomlingani wakho (kusuka ku-ecstasy uya osizini, ngakho-ke udaka luyaphela).
Ekugcineni uyakwazi uphuphe ngomlilo wentaba-mlilo, okungukuthi, i-lava, okusho ukuthi ungumuntu oshukunyiswa uthando.
Uma lo mbhalo u ukuphupha ngentaba-mlilo, Bese ngincoma ukuthi ufunde ezinye ezifanayo esigabeni se- amaphupho ngohlamvu V.
