Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha uqubha?

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha udada

Los amaphupha okuqubha Ngamanye amaxesha ziveliswa ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye zingenzeka nakubani na, kwaye ngokubanzi, zibonisa isidingo sokulumkela indlela oziphethe ngayo. Ukuqubha sisenzo somntu esixhomekeke kutoliko oluninzi. Kwilizwe lamaphupha, abo bantu bahlala bequbha rhoqo kunokwenzeka ukuba banolu hlobo lwamaphupha, kunye nabo banedama lokuya elunxwemeni. Kungenzeka ukuba eli phupha libonakala lingaqhelekanga kuwe okanye ulidibanisa nento oyiphileleyo mva nje.

Nokuba yintoni, uya kuphupha ngento, nokuba awukhumbuli, kwaye loo ngcinga iveliswe kwi-subconscious inentsingiselo enokuchazwa. Kungenxa yoko le nto namhlanje ndibhala eli nqaku malunga namaphupha ahambelana nokuqubha kunye nakho konke ukutolikwa okunokubakho kuxhomekeke kumongo wawo.

Intsingiselo yokuphupha ngokudada

Si Awukwazi ukudada kodwa uphuphe usenza kwaye uyarhaxwaKuthetha ukuba elinye ilishwa likujikelezile kwaye ezantsi uyalazi, njengobunzima bokuhlawula imali mboleko. Ukuba uphupha ngokudada emanzini anzulu kakhulu, oko kuthetha ukuba ungene kwinqanaba elimnyama lobomi bakho, zama ukuloyisa ngokukhawuleza.

Ukuba uphuphe ukuba ufunda ukuqubha, imele ubuntu obuzimeleyo, obukwaziyo ukuzifundela ngokwakho, awudingi ukuba abanye baphile kwaye uza kwenza kakuhle kakhulu kwixa elizayo. Ukuba uphupha udada elwandle kodwa usuka elunxwemeni kwaye awazi ukuba ungabuya njani Kumhlaba oqinileyo, oko kuthetha ukuba awuthathi zigqibo zilungileyo, kuya kufuneka uyeke ucinge ngamanyathelo alandelayo oza kuwathatha ngaphambi kokuba wenze iingxaki zakho zibe mandundu. Endaweni yoko, ukuba siphupha ngokudada emanzini acocekileyo okanye ngekristallini (funda ngakumbi malunga iphupha lamanzi acwebezelayo), oko kuthetha ukuba ukwindlela elungileyo kwaye usombulula iingxaki ezinzulu ebezikukhathaza ngobukrelekrele kwaye ziya kuthi shwaka kungekudala.

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha uqubha

Ngaba wawurhaxwa? Uziva ngathi ukusilela kuyasondela, ucinga ukuba ungumntu onamashwa, ongonwabanga. Kuya kufuneka utshintshe indlela ocinga ngayo kungekudala ngaphambi kokuba wenze nzima yonke into. ¿Uphupha uzibhaqa uqubha kulwandle oluzolileyo (funda ngakumbi malunga ukutolikwa kokuphupha ngolwandle)? Uhamba kwinqanaba lokufezekisa, wenza kakuhle emsebenzini, uthando kunye nempilo. Yonwabele ulonwabo. Endaweni yoko, ukuba ulwandle lurhabaxaKuthetha okuchaseneyo: ngokwezezimali utyhubela kumaxesha amabi, ngokomsebenzi awuphumeleli kwaye umsebenzi wakho usengozini, yiyo loo nto uxinzelelo luxhomekeke kwiingcinga zakho ngendlela yamaphupha amabi.

Ukuba uphupha ngokudada emanzini acacileyo kwaye uvele wathandana, oko kuthetha ukuba ufumene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo, ubunyulu bothando buhlasele intliziyo yakho kwaye uhamba umzuzu owonwabileyo. Ukuba ephupheni ubukhuphisana kukhuphiswano lokuqubha, ibhekisa kumzamo kunye nomzamo owenzayo ukuze ube nempumelelo. Nokuba iphambuka ngaphambili, ibhabhathane, ukubuyela umva okanye isifuba, ibonisa imiqondiso elungileyo ebonisa ukubaluleka kwakho.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyabona ukuba uphulukana nomdyarho ngumahluko omkhulu, oko kuthetha ukuba awusebenzi nzima ngokwaneleyo ukuvuna umvuzo kwixesha elizayo.

Ukuba uphuphe ukuba uqubha ukusindisa ubomi bakho umntu otshona emlanjeni (jonga kwakhona intsingiselo ye- phupha ngomlambo), ithi ngawe unesisa kwaye ubakhathalele abantu obathandayo.

Belinjani iphupha lakho? Kutheni ubudada? Utolike ntoni? Abafundi baya kuthanda ukuba neendawo ezininzi zokujonga ukuze bafikelele kwizigqibo zabo.

Ukuba eli nqaku iphupha lokuqubha, ke ndicebisa ukuba ufunde ezifanayo kudidi lwe amaphupha aqala ngo-N.


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Lonke ulwazi malunga nentsingiselo kunye nokutolikwa kweli phupha lilungisiwe kusetyenziswa ibhibliyografi eyaziwayo ephuhliswe ngabakhokeleyo beengcali zengqondo kunye neengcali kwicandelo ezinje Sigmund Freud, UCarl Gustav Jung okanye uMary Ann Mattoon. Ungazibona zonke iinkcukacha zencwadi ethile ngokucofa apha.

2 izimvo ku "Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha uqubha?"

  1. Ndiphuphe ndibhukuda echibini elonwabileyo nabahlobo bam kwaye ndaye ndagqibela ukubabetha ngesiquphe

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  2. Sawubona,
    Ndiphuphe ndiphuma ndidada kwaye ndiphefumlela kumphezulu wequla elinamanzi azolileyo kwaye acocekile?
    Ephupheni bendiziva ndinemvakalelo yokuba ndikwazi ukuphefumla ngaphantsi kwamanzi!

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