Iisutikheyisi zibalulekile xa sithatha uhambo. Kwimeko apho ungumthandi wokuhambahamba, ujonga umhlaba kwaye ufunda ngamasiko amatsha, kuqhelekile oko phupha malunga neesutikheyisi. Kodwa izinto ziyatshintsha ukuba liphupha eliye laveliswa ngaphandle kokuqhubeka, okanye ukuba liphindaphindwa rhoqo. Inyani yile yokuba isibakala sokuphupha malunga neesutikheyisi sinentsingiselo yephupha, kuba ziyinto eqhelekileyo eluntwini.
Ukutolikwa okunokwenzeka kunokuba nako kuya kuxhomekeka kwi-subconscious yomntu ngamnye, kwaye kunokuba lolona hlobo luhlukeneyo. Ke ngoko, kuxhomekeke kumxholo, kunye nemeko yethu yobuqu, izikhombisi zinokwahluka kakhulu. Funda ukuze wazi ngakumbi ngeli phupha
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iityesi?
Ngokubanzi, ukuphupha iisutikheyisi kunxulumene nokufuna ukuthatha uhambo. Ukuba unoxinzelelo okanye uxinezelekile okwethutyana, ukuba ubusebenze nzima iinyanga kwaye awukabinakhe, kuqhelekile ukuba ufuna ukunqamla ngandlela thile, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba uhambo lolona hlobo ukuyenza.
Kodwa ayizukuba nentsingiselo efanayo ukuba siphupha ukuba sihamba no ityesi enkulu ecaleni kwethu (oku kuya kuthetha ukuba ungumntu obonayo kwangaphambili), ukuba siya kuhambo kwaye kumzuzu wokugqibela thina ulibale ityesi (Oku kubonisa ukuba singalahlekelwa yinto enexabiso elikhulu).
Eyona nto itolikwa yipotimesi ixhaphakileyo ukutolikwa
Ukuba uphupha ityesi engenanto. Inokuba uye waya eholideyini kwaye xa ufika ehotele, xa uvula nje, uyaqonda ukuba akukho nto ngaphakathi, kwaye bekugcwele.
Oku kuhambelana nenyani yokuba kukho isithuba ebomini bakho, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ilungu losapho, iqabane, okanye sele uphulukene nobuhlobo. Ukuba uyayivula elunxwemeni, kuya kufuneka uyifunde ukuba ithetha ntoni phupha ngolwandle.
Ngaba uyifumene isutikheyisi engeyoyakho? Eli phupha linentsingiselo enomdla kakhulu, njengoko linxulumene nokuhlola.
Ingqondo yakho inomdla kwaye ungathanda ukuphanda ngayo yonke into enxulumene nesutikheyisi kunye neziqulatho zayo.
Umjikelo omtsha weenyawo zakho uyavula. Ngamanye amaxesha unokufuna utshintsho kwaye uqale ekuqaleni, utshintshe ubomi bakho ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuphupha ityesi yomtshato kunokuba luphawu lokuba lixesha lokuba nobuganga bokuthatha elinyathelo linzima kuthi.
Mhlawumbi lixesha lokutshintsha imisebenzi, sandise isangqa sabahlobo, kwaye silawule ubomi bethu.
Ingaba ityesi yophukile? Ukuba udibana nesutikheyisi eyaphukileyo, oku kuthetha ukuba kunokuba kokungakhuselekanga.
Awuzithembi kakhulu kwaye oku kuya kutshintsha. Lixesha lokuba uqale wenze izigqibo ungakhange ucinge ngento eza kulandela.
Ukuphupha ityesi egcwele iimpahla. Luphawu lokuba lithwele umthwalo omninzi. Masithi ziingqondo zethu ezixhasa kwaye zisikhulule ngamaphupha.
Mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka ufumane ukuba yintoni "enzima" kuwe kwaye ubone ukuba ungawenza lula njani umthwalo.
Kukho isiqephu kuthotho "Ndadibana Njani noMama Wakho" apho UTed uthetha ngesutikheyisi emnyama ekufuneka eyiphethe eyomnye umntu.
Yisikweko sezo ndawo zabanye abantu esingenazo xa sidibana nabo, esicinga ukuba sinokuhlala nazo.
Nangona kunjalo, asisoloko sikwazi ukwenza njalo kwaye i-subconscious yethu iyasityhilela.
Ukuba eli nqaku malunga phupha malunga neesutikheyisi uyifumene inomdla, kuya kufuneka ufunde amaphupha afanayo ne unobumba M.
Ukuphupha ukuba umntu othandekayo ufika kwaye umama wam wafa ngokumangala kwaye ushiya i-suitcase ephuzi ngaphandle kwendlu. Xa eqaphela ndimxelela ngeyona ndlela imangalisayo. Uthatha ityesi, ajike ahambe. andiqondi