Wanna uyazi kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ufudo? Las Ufudo Zizilwanyana ezingenakulinganiswa, awukwazi ukuba ziya kuphendula njani. Babonakala bezolile kwaye benoxolo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha bayakuluma. Abantu abaninzi banamaphupha ahlobene nabo, kwaye abayazi intsingiselo yephupha. Ukuba kutshanje ububonile uxwebhu malunga nezi zirhubuluzi, undwendwele umyezo wezilwanyana okanye ufunde incwadi apho bekukho khona ufudo, akukho nto yokuyitolika. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale uhlalutyo lwe-psychoanalysis, ungalibali zonke iinkcukacha ophuphe zona, njengoko ziya kuyiguqula intsingiselo yazo.
Umzekelo, ayifani ukuba zizifudo ezinkulu okanye ezincinci, ukuba bayaphila okanye bafile, ukuba benziwe ngamanzi okanye ngomhlaba. Ngokunjalo, banokuba nemibala eyahlukeneyo (emhlophe, eluhlaza ...), ngoxolo okanye ngobundlongondlongo, ngokuzalwa okanye ngokuzala kwakhona. Ubonile? Makhe sibone ngokweenkcukacha zonke iinguqulelo ezinokwenzeka.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ufudo?
Olunye ulwazi ekufuneka ulugcine engqondweni kukuba kuxhomekeke kwingingqi ohlala kuyo phupha ngezi sauropsids inokuba nengcaciso enye okanye enye. Kukho amazwe apho i-gastronomy inesitya esiqhelekileyo: isuphu yofudo. Abo bayitya yonke imihla kunokwenzeka ukuba balale ngokuzenzekelayo. Kwelinye icala, abanye abantu abanalo naluphi na uhlobo lobudlelwane obuqhelekileyo nesi silwanyana, kwaye iingcali zengqondo zichaza ukuba enye yeentsingiselo zephupha malunga neenqanawa kukuthanda kwakho ukuzibonela.
Ugcina kuwe izinto ezininzi zobomi bakho (njengoko isirhubuluzi besinokwenza kwigobolondo laso) kwaye awuxeleli mntu ngaso. Olunye utoliko lwamaphupha lunxulunyaniswa nobuntu obuzolileyo, obungenancumo okanye obunzulu. Ufudo baneqokobhe elilukhuni, Kunzima ukuyaphula, ke oko kunokumela isimilo sengqondo yakho kule ngqiqo.
Ukuphupha ufudo oluncinci okanye olukhulu
Ukuphupha ufudo olukhulu kakhulu kuthetha ukuba le nto ichazwe apha ngasentla yenzeka ngayo ngamandla aphezulu. Uzimisele kakhulu kwaye uthule. Awuthandi ukuveza nantoni na malunga nokusondelelana kwakho, okanye nabantu abasondeleyo kuwe. Isilwanyana esikhulu asiyonto ngaphandle "kokuqiniswa" kwenkcazo yoqobo. Ukuba isilwanyana esirhubuluzayo sincinci kakhulu, kuya kufuneka ujonge eminye imiba ukucacisa ukutolikwa kwephupha. Ukwahlula ubungakanani, ingqondo yakho iya kukunika imvakalelo oya kuyikhumbula xa uvuka.
Ukuphupha ubomi bofudo okanye abafileyo
Ukuphupha ufudo olufileyo Inokujika ibe liphupha elothusayo. Kuthetha ukuba unobuntu obuthathaka, kunzima kuwe ukuthi hayi kwabanye kwaye inokuba yingxaki yexesha elide. Kulula kakhulu ukuba uqiniseke okanye uziphembelele ekwenzeni izinto ongazithandiyo, kuba iqokobhe lesirhubuluzi esifileyo alifani nelokuphila. Ukusombulula obu busuku, Ndikucebisa ukuba undwendwele isayikholojisti ukukunceda uqinise indlela yakho yokuba, ukuzikhusela ekuhlaselweni ngabantu abafuna ukuxhaphaza abanye kuwe. Unokubhenela kubahlobo abathembekileyo, kubazali bakho okanye kwiqabane lakho kwaye ubaxelele malunga neenkxalabo zakho.
Ukuphupha iifudo ezikulumayo
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uphupha iimfudo ezikulumayo, ezikuhlaselayo, zinengcwangu okanye zide zibulale, kwaye ulwela ukuzikhusela kubo, de ubabulale, kutolikwa ukuba ungumntu okwaziyo ukusombulula zonke iingxaki ezivelayo. Kule meko unamandla kwaye unzima.
Iphupha malunga neebhokhwe zosana
Ukuba ziintsana okanye ziyazalwa, oko kunokuthetha ukuba unqwenela ukuba nomntwana okanye ukhulelwe iqabane lakho. Izilwanyana ezizalwayo zimele isidingo sokuzisa ubomi obutsha emhlabeni.
Kwenzeka into efanayo ukuba uphupha ukuba iimfudo zivelisa, ziyadibana okanye ziyazala, ufuna ukugqiba ubudlelwane bakho nelungu elitsha losapho.
Ukuphupha ufudo emanzini
Zisemanzini? Ufudo lwaselwandle lufanekisela inkululeko. Kuthetha isidingo sakho sokuthatha iholide Ukuzahlula kwisiqhelo okwethutyana. Ingakumbi xa ubona bequbha ngeentlanzi ngokukhululekileyo. Cinga ukuthatha ikhefu uye kuhambo oluya ezintabeni apho unokuphefumla umoya omtsha kwaye uhlaziye ingqondo yakho ngaphakathi.
Ukuphupha ii-turtle ezibalekayo
Kukho ithuba lokuba uphupha ufudo olubhabha, okanye olubalekayo. Kwakhona, kuya kufuneka ulahle ubomi bemihla ngemihla okanye utshintshe imikhwa. Ukuba sele uyenzile, i-subconscious ikubonisa eli phupha li-placid ngelixa ulele kuba uthathe isigqibo esifanelekileyo, kwaye uziva ukhululeke ngakumbi.
Ividiyo malunga nentsingiselo yokuphupha malunga neefudu
Ukuba ufumene eli nqaku malunga kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ufudo, ke ndicebisa ukuba undwendwele ezinye ezinxulumene nazo kwicandelo lokuphupha ngezilwanyana okanye kwelo amaphupha ngonobumba T.
Ndiphuphe ndihamba endleleni eya edolophini, ngexesha lokuhamba ndidlula kufutshane nezinye izindlu, kwenye yazo babenofudo olukhulu olukhulu olwalusikwe ukuba balutye, lubonisa iimpawu zokuba bebesitya ngalo ixesha elide ngenxa yobukhulu bayo obukhulu.
Ndiphuphe ndihamba ngesikhephe kwavela ufudo olukhulu.
Mkhulu kakhulu, ngaphandle kwegobolondo. Ndingabaleka kubo bonke.
Kodwa bafuna ukundiluma, mna kunye nomhlobo wam. Ewe ... akukho mhlobo, intombazana eqhelekileyo uyazi kodwa ayibonanga kwizigidi zeminyaka. Ekugqibeleni sonke sabaleka.
Andilikhumbuli lonke iphupha lam, ndikhumbula kuphela ukuba ndandisesitratweni kwaye ndabona iitrust zomhlaba zinamaqokobhe anemibala kwaye zazimalunga ne-5 cm, ndazikhupha kumqokeleli wamanzi emvula kwaye ndaziva ndonwabile.
Ndiphuphe ndihamba ndijikeleza indlu yesithandwa sam sangaphambili kwaye bendifuna ukubulisa kodwa khange ndibenesibindi sokuphuma kwakhe ndize ndibulise, ungabakhathalela abanye abantu, ndizobuya kwaye mxelele phofu kwaye ifika isoka likatatomncinci.umzala wakhe namanye amadoda kodwa aphinde aphume kwakhona bayathetha kwaye ndiqhele ukumbona kwaye xa ndihamba ndibona ufudo luphethe iqokobhe lingaqhelekanga kwaye umfazi ususa ufudo xa uyavuka kuba kubonakala ngathi uyahlupheka kuba lebantrase ithathe ujikelo olungaqhelekanga emhlabeni kwaye umfazi ophethe intonga ndiyikhulula iqokobhe lakhe kwaye ndibonakala ngathi ndiyahlupheka ndiphakama
Molo, ndiphuphe ufudo lwaselwandle olungenayo iqokobhe.
Ndithe ndakumfumana wayesitya iimpahla kwaye emqaleni wayenomngxunya omncinci owawunelaphu endalikhupha ndaza zonke iimpahla zaphuma esiswini sakhe, ndakhawuleza ndamfaka iqokobhe ndamnika namanzi. uye wasela mpela kamnandi ndalila x ixhala lakhe wacela uxolo kuba engazi uba unxaniwe kwaye ulambile watsho naye ukuba makatye. Into engaqhelekanga ngale nto andizange ndibone nantoni na enxulumene noofudu iveki yonke okanye unyaka ndicinga ukuba, imibuliso