Kuxhomekeka kwisilwanyana, ukutolikwa kwamaphupha kuya kwahluka kakhulu, nangona kuyinto eqhelekileyo uphawu lwenkxalabo yokwenene. Kule nqaku mna iinkcukacha kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha izinambuzane. Abantu abaninzi ngakumbi kunokuba unokucinga ngephupha lolunye uhlobo isinambuzane okanye ibug. Ngapha koko, uninzi lwabo baye basibuza beza nombuzo ofanayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuze uqonde ngcono into oyiphuphileyo, kuya kufuneka ucacise ngokuthe ngqo ukuba ibiyintoni na intsholongwane okanye izinambuzane, ngowuphi umxholo i-subconscious ekubonisileyo kunye nemeko ohamba kuyo
Akufani ukubona isigcawu njengeentwala, iintakumba, iinyoka, amaphela okanye iimbovane. Ngaba ukwazile ukubabulala okanye zikulume? Ngaba babelele ebhedini, emzimbeni okanye entloko? Ityala ngalinye linentsingiselo yalo, kwaye yile nto siza kuyibona kancinci kancinci.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngezinambuzane?
Iingcali zengqondo zithi oko iphupha malunga neebugs ngaphandle kwesilwanyana oko kukuthi, zihlala zibonisa uhlobo oluthile lwenkxalabo olujikeleza intloko. Umzekelo, ukungena kwezinambuzane ezihlasela izityalo zakho kunokuthetha ukoyikeka kokulahlekelwa yimali kutyalo-mali olomeleleyo, umsebenzi okanye into ebalulekileyo. Awufuni ukufikelela kusizi ngenxa yokubuyela umva okunokuphetshwa, okanye ukuba ityala linciphisa umgangatho wobomi bakho. Uloyiko lokungcatshwa ngokuluma ngasemva lolunye utoliko oluqhelekileyo, ukulumkela amagazi akungqongileyo kunokubangela obu bubi.
Nangona kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba awukhe uzive uchongiwe kunye nenye yezi nkcazo. Kuqhelekile, kuba "zenziwe ngendlela eqhelekileyo". Kuyimfuneko ukuhlalutya kakuhle imeko apho iphupha liphuhle khona, kunye nemeko ohamba kuyo. Ekugqibeleni, kuya kufuneka uyinikeze ukuthambeka kokuqonda ukuze uyiqonde ngokupheleleyo kwayeintsingiselo yeso sinambuzane okanye ibug engqondweni yakho. Khawufane ucinge ngokubulala isigcawu njengomfuziselo yilwa noloyiko lwakho, okanye unomeva okuleqayo kwaye ukwazi ukubaleka ... oko kuthetha inkalipho yokoyisa imiqobo. Kwelinye icala, ukuba iqhude liyaluma, kuya kutolikwa ukuba ufuna abanye ukusombulula ingxaki. Uyaqonda? Makhe sijonge onke amathuba kwezi ziqendu zilandelayo.
Ukutolika okungakumbi njengamaphupha kwesinambuzane okanye isinambuzane
Enye ingxaki awunakuyeka ukucinga ngayo? Mhlawumbi uphupha inambuzane ezininzi entlokweni yakho okanye emzimbeni.
Ukuba uziva ucinezelekile kwaye awuyeki ukucinga malunga nayo, ingqondo ihlala icwangcisa ezi ntlobo zemifanekiso ukukuxwayisa ukuba ucinga kakhulu, okunokuthi, ekuhambeni kwexesha, kube yingozi kwimpilo yakho.
Phuma nomhlobo osondeleyo ukuze uzole ngaphakathi.
Iphupha lokubhabha kunye nezinambuzane ezinkulu. Ukuba ubungakanani bazo bukhulu, bayabhabha kwaye awukwazi ukubabamba, oko kuthetha ukuba isisombululo samaxhala akho asikho ezandleni zakho.
Kwakhona, kuya kufuneka uye kumntu omthembileyo onokukunika isandla kwisisombululo sakho. Kwenzeka kakhulu xa phupha ngoonomeva kunye neenyosi, okanye ukuya phupha ngeempukane.
Ngaba bayondla kwigazi lakho? Uninzi lwabagxeki zii-parasites ezifana namakhalane. Zifakwe eluswini, ezinyaweni kwaye zondla igazi lomzimba wethu ukuze zisinde.
Ke ngoko, iphupha elinxulumene noko litolikwa njengokuba usoyika ukuba iqabane lakho okanye usapho lwakho luza kuthatha ithuba lempumelelo yakho ngaphandle komdla omsulwa.
Iphupha elibi lenzeka ngakumbi xa uthe wanesisa ixesha elide emntwini ongayiniki ingalo yokujija. Funda ngakumbi ngokufunda kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha amakhalane, kwaye Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iinyoka o iinyoka.
Ngaba uyoyika iincukuthu? Oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-entomophobia, kwaye xa unamava amabi, umzekelo ukuba uyalunywa sisigcawu okanye ukuba ufumana itarantula ebhedini, uya kuba namaphupha amabi malunga namava amabi.
Kule meko, intsingiselo icacile. Kodwa kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba zininzi iindlela zokoyisa i-phobia enje. Ndiyakukhuthaza ukuba ujonge iyeza. Uya kuziva ungcono.
Ukuphupha iincukuthu nezinambuzane emlonyeni wakho okanye ekutyeni kuthetha ukuba uziva udiniwe kakhulu isiganeko esithile.
Ihlala isenzeka ukuba uneengxaki zemali zokuziphilisa, okanye ukuba ufuna ukugcina ubudlelwane, kodwa uqaphele ukuba akunakwenzeka.
Kwakhona, ukuba uziva ungalunganga malunga nalo naliphi na inyathelo (ukuthukisa, ukuphikisana, ukulwa), eli phupha lingavela kwiintsuku kamva. Uya kuvuka udiniwe kwaye awunakuphumla. Ndikucebisa ukuba ucele uxolelo ukunciphisa isazela.
Ngaba uzibulele izinambuzane okanye zifile? Ziindaba ezimnandi kaloku oko kubonisa uloyiso, ukoyisa ingxaki engakuvumeli ulale ngoxolo. Womelele kwaye i-subconscious yakho ikunika umvuzo omncinci ngayo.
Ukuba kuye kwavela i-bug emaphupheni akho, ndingathanda ukuva malunga necala lakho. Yabelana ngamava akho kwizimvo ukuze sonke sikwazi ukuncedisana boyise amaqhuma amancinci.
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Ukuba eli nqaku malunga kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha izinambuzaneNgoku ndicebisa ukuba undwendwele ezinye ezifanayo kwicandelo lokuphupha ngezilwanyana.
Ndiphuphe izinambuzane ezi-3 zihamba ngaphakathi kwesifuba sam, enye inkulu kunomnye kwaye bendizoyibamba ngeempondo ebinazo kwaye ndizikhuphe kodwa andizazi ukuba bezinjani izinambuzane.
Ndiphuphe ilifu lezinambuzane lininzi kakhulu kangangokuba lenze ishiti elijikeleze umzimba wam. Baye bandithatha ndaphaphazela ndaya elwandle apho bandishiya khona, bawela emanzini amnyama, kodwa andatshona, ndihamba phezu kwamanzi ndemka apho nonyana wam. Nangona kunjalo ndaqhubeka neli phepha lezinambuzane elaligqume umzimba wam kwaye lalinzima kakhulu.
Ndiphuphe ngesinambuzane esingaqhelekanga, andazi ukuba sikhona, kodwa ibingumda omalunga neesentimitha ezi-5, ibihamba nje, bendifuna ukuyibamba kodwa bekunzima kum, imvakalelo ibizothe, uloyiko, ukungathembi yayo, bendisazi ukuba inokwenza lukhulu kum kubuhlungu.
Ndiphuphe ibug engekhoyo ebomini bokwenyani. Yayiyincukuthu endandiyibuze kumakhulu wam, kwaye yayinjengesibetho se-ertyisi, yayinkulu kakhulu kwaye emqolo wayo yayinebhokisi, efana neloli, yokuthwala izinto. Emva koko ndiza kubona enkulu ethe kratya, kodwa andizange ndilinge ukubabulala, okanye nditye eso sitya se-ertyisi. Emva kwexesha ndafumanisa ukuba utata ubulele omnye wabo, nangona oko bekumxabisile. Ngaba ukhona umntu onokundinceda?
Ndiphuphe amaphela amaninzi aphakathi ahlala ebusweni nasezingalweni, emva koko besele ndinezigcawu ezoyikekayo nezinkulu ezinyaweni, zindilume zimbi kakhulu kwaye zibuhlungu kakhulu kwaye azindishiyanga ndedwa ezinye izinambuzane andikaze ndibone de ekugqibeleni ndibaleke kuloo ndawo, ndafika emlanjeni kunye nepiranhas kwaye ndifuna ukubabamba babulale, andazi ukuba bendiliphupha kakubi
Ndiphuphe izinambuzane ezininzi ezinjengeembovane ezinkulu, ezimnyama zitsala iridescent eziwa zide ziye eluthulini kwaye ebusuku, enye yazo yaluma umlenze wam ukubaleka.
Ndiphuphe zininzi, izinambuzane, ii-cjanchitos ezincinci zomhlaba kunye nezinye ezinjenge lapitas chikitas nevritas bezisesandleni sam sasekunene kwaye ndizitsale ngomnye umsno. Iihagu zomhlaba bezisuswa ngokulula, kodwa abanye abantwana abanokufana no-5 okanye u-6 kunzima ukubasusa.
Ndiphuphe ndibona isinambuzane esimdaka ngegqabi, besintle kwaye ndibize umntakwethu, owayekwelo gumbi linye, ukuba asibone kwaye sathi sakukusibona saphinda saba luhlobo lweebhaluni ezinemibala, intle kakhulu, nangona yanika imvakalelo yokuba iza kuqhuma.
Molo Molo ... ndiphuphe iCicada ndiyayazi icicadas kwaye zihlala ziluhlaza okwesimarag kunye nezinto zesilivere okanye umbala wamagqabi omileyo aneenkcukacha zegolide ezimalunga ne-5 ukuya kwi-7 cm, into endiyikhumbulayo ephupheni yile: ichibi elingqongwe ziintaba lizele yimithi yemipayini kunye nemini ilanga libalele kwaye linamafu amancinci kwaye liqwalaselwe emaphethelweni echibi isinambuzane esihamba malunga ne-5cm kuloliwe wedama ephupheni ndikunye nabahlobo kwaye ndiyakuxelela , uyibonile lonto? Ndasondela kudada, omnye uthi yinyosi enkulu, abanye bathi lumka, asazi ukuba yintoni kwaye ndifika emaphethelweni echibini kwaye ndibaxelele nooo yiChicharra, le nzwakazi yiza kuyibona, kodwa ibimnyama kwaye inxenye yamaphiko ibinegolide kunye tyheli ngamanqaku esilivere kwaye ibengezela imibala yeeperile ngokucacileyo ndithe yicicada eyahlukileyo amaphiko awabonakali emva kokuyijonga okwemizuzu embalwa ndatshona ndaza ndadada ndaya kwelinye icala ndathi xa ndiphuma emanzini ndaziva ukuba ndinayo entanyeni ndihamba kwaye yandibangela ixhala, kodwa hayi kakubi ndandingafuni ukuba atshone ndacela omnye wabahlobo bam ukuba andikhulule ... ndavuka
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Ndiphuphe unyana wam enendlebe emdaka kodwa xa eyicoca, izilwanyana ezincinci zaqala ukugijima endlebeni yakhe
Mholo! Namhlanje bendicoce indlu yam kwaye ndibone isinambuzane esikhangeleka ngathi yimbovane kodwa sincinci kancinci kubhontsi wam omkhulu xa ndifuna ukuwubamba, wanyamalala ezandleni zam, yayimangalisa kakhulu kuba akukho nto ivelileyo ayijikelezileyo. ixesha lokuqala lokuba ndenzeke liyinyani Ngaba ukhona umntu owaziyo ukuba kuthetha ntoni? Enkosi!
Ndiphuphe usisi wam ephethe uhlobo lwesipho kwi-clavicle yakhe ebimunya igazi lakhe, kodwa ndiyikhuphile ndayinyathela njengephela, kwaye uphalaze igazi elininzi xa ndiyinyathela, ibijongeka ngathi salgijuela, kodwa yayi-orenji
Ndiphuphe isinambuzane esinomzimba otyebileyo onameva sangena sawugquma, singwevu okanye beige ngokombala, saqala ukundileqa sandihlaba inyawo ngomeva, ndacaphuka ndasinyathela (bendinxibe sandals), ndithe ndakuyinyathela ndabona kuphuma into emhlophe ngaphakathi kukho umzimba ofana nentsholongwane eluhlaza.