Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umntu ongasathethi naye?

Umntu oqala ukuphupha Ukuphupha abantu abangathethiyo

Asinakuthi onke amaphupha aneentsingiselo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kukho amaphupha athi, xa sivuka, asishiye sinemvakalelo kunye nenkumbulo ecacileyo yento eyenzekileyo. Xa sikhangela intsingiselo yazo, kwiimeko ezininzi ingqamana nomzuzwana wobomi bethu. Ngoko kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umntu ongasathethi naye? Kwakhe kwenzeka kuwe ukuba ube neli phupha?

Ukuphupha ngomntu ongasathethi naye kuxhaphake kakhulu, nakwiingcali zengqondo, kuthetha ukuba kukho imvakalelo ethile ngakuloo mntu, elungileyo okanye embi. Kodwa yintoni intsingiselo yalo yokwenene?

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umntu ongasathethi naye?

Ukuba ukhe wavuka wafing’ iintshiya xa ukhumbula iphupha oliphuphayo, into yokuqala oyenzayo xa unesikhewu isenokuba. khangela kwi-Intanethi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umntu ongasathethi naye.

Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abahlobo, usapho, njl. iyazihlukanisa kwaye inokuba yinto entle, into embi okanye ngenxa nje yokunqongophala kwexesha. Ke, xa loo mntu ebuyela ebomini bethu, nokuba ngamaphupha, ibonisa ukuba sinemvakalelo ngakuye, nangona singakhange sithethe kwangethuba okanye awusenabudlelwane naye.

Ngokwenene, i-subconscious yakho ikuxelela ukuba unomdla wokwazi ngaloo mntu. Mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba ufuna ukuthetha naye okanye kuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni ebomini bakhe. Ngamanye amazwi, yimfuneko ukwazi imeko yomnye umntu.

Ngoku, kunokubangela nemvakalelo engalunganga. Umzekelo, ukuba omnye umntu wayeka ukuthetha naye ngenxa yengxaki, ngenxa yokungathembeki okanye ngenxa yezinye izizathu, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba, kuxhomekeke kwiimvakalelo onazo ephupheni okanye xa uvuka, bakuxelela ukuba iimvakalelo oziva zilungile okanye ezimbi.

Kuxhomekeke entwenini? Ukususela kumxholo wephupha.

Phupha uthetha nomntu ongazange uthethe naye

Umntu ucinga ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umntu ongasathethi naye

Kungenzeka ukuba ephupheni dibana nomntu ongazange uthethe naye. Isenokuba ngumntu osemsebenzini wakho, kusapho lwakho, kwisangqa somntu...omaziyo ngokubona, kodwa awukhange uthethe naye. Umzekelo, ukuba uya epakini ungadibana nabantu abafanayo kwaye ude uthi molo, kodwa akukho okunye.

Ukanti ephupheni uthetha naye. Ibiya kuthetha ntoni?

Ewe, kukho iinguqulelo ezininzi. Kwisandle esinye, Kuthiwa i-subconscious yakho ikuxelela ukuba uziva ulilolo kwaye kufuneka uthethe nomntu ukuze udibanise. Isenokuba kungenxa yokuba befuna inkxaso, okanye ukuxelela omnye umntu into ethile. Oku kuya kuhambelana nemfuneko yokuba banikele ingqalelo kuwe. Oko kukuthi, ukhangela umntu oza kuthetha naye kuba kufuneka uzive uxhaswa ngomnye umntu, hayi nje into yokuba kufunwa imvume okanye hayi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, inokwenzeka intsingiselo yomtsalane. Ngamanye amazwi, into yokuba utsaleleke kuloo mntu kodwa ebomini bokwenyani awukenzi isigqibo sokuthetha naye kwaye kwi-subconscious yakho uyitolika njengesidingo sokufuna ukuyenza kwaye ude wenze ngathi uyayenza, nokuba ukuphulukana noloyiko okanye ukwenza ngcono ngakumbi.

Phupha ubona umntu oyekile ukuthetha nawe

Abantu abathethayo

Unexesha elide ungamboni lamntu? Elinye lawona maphupha axhaphakileyo anento yokwenza nabantu abakwisangqa sakho obabona bephinda besenziwa emaphupheni. Kwaye ngaxa lithile unokufumanisa ukuba i-subconscious yakho yazisa umhlobo, ilungu losapho okanye umntu ongathethi naye kumaphupha akho. Kule meko, ubona nje.

Intsingiselo yaloo maphupha kuxhomekeka ukuba busekho ubuhlobo phakathi kwenu okanye hayi. Ukuba kukho, kubonisa ukuba, nangona ayiseyonxalenye yobomi bakho, usamhlonela loo mntu yaye umkhumbula kakuhle. Ngoku, ukuba awuhambanga kakuhle, okanye unomsindo, kwaye ungasondeli kuye okanye uthethe naye., isenokubonisa ukuba iyinxalenye yezinto zakho zangaphambili, kodwa akufuni ukuba ibuyele ebomini bakho (kungoko uyekwa). Isenokubonisa ukuba amanxeba awakapholi kwaye awukamxoleli loo mntu.

Phupha ngabantu abangathethiyo

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umntu ongasathethi naye?

Khawube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wakho uphupha yaye ngequbuliso, nangona uthetha, kungabikho mntu uthetha nawe. Kuba ngathi bazizidenge okanye baphulaphule wena kuphela. Okanye okubi ngakumbi, abayi kukuhoya.

Xa oku kusenzeka, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuvakalelwa kukuba kufuneka ubaphulaphule. Luphawu lokuba uyabakhumbula aba bantu okanye unoxabiso ngabo kangangokuba uyathanda ukuthetha nabo.

Yiyo loo nto xa besilela, uziva uphoxekile kunye nesidingo saloo ncoko iye yasilela ephupheni. Kuba ngathi, ngexesha elithile, uzibhaqe uwedwa, kungekho bani unokugqabaza.

Phupha usilwa nabantu abangathethi nawe

Kuthekani ukuba kuvela ukuba ephupheni ulwa naloo mntu ungathethi naye? Isenokuba yincoko eshushu, okanye umlo wokwenene.

Yiba nokuba kunjalo, okokuqala, awuyi kuvuka ukwimeko entle kakhulu (ngaphandle kokuba kwenzeka enye into ephupheni lakho), kwaye okwesibini, kuthetha ukuba kusekho amanxeba, iingxabano okanye iingxaki onazo ezicacileyo kwaye awukwazi ukumxolela loo mntu okwangoku.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, la maphupha ayenzeka xa umntu esixelela ngalomntu unengxaki naye kwaye ithi qatha engqondweni yakho ukuba umfowunele okanye umxolele. i-subconscious yakho ikunika isilumkiso sokuba alikafiki ixesha ngokuba, oko akwenzileyo kuwe, usekuninzi engqondweni.

Phupha ufowunela umntu ongathethi naye

Eli phupha lihle kakhulu, nangona ukuthetha inyaniso kunokwenzeka ukuba, xa uvuka, uya kuziva udidekile. Intsingiselo icacile: Xa ephupheni ubiza umntu ongathethi naye, oko kuthetha ukuba ufuna ukuqalisa kwakhona obo budlelwane bunidibanise.

Ngoku, kuxhomekeke kwifowuni. Ukuba iphupha lakho liyaqhubeka kwaye umnxeba umnandi, Oku kuya kubonisa ukuba uyamkhumbula loo mntu kwaye ungathanda ukudibana naye kwakhona. Kodwa, ukuba umnxeba ugcwele izinyeliso, ukulwa, njl. ngoko ke into ebonisayo kukuba ngaphakathi unezinto ezininzi ongathanda ukuzithetha komnye umntu. Ngamanye amazwi, ukuba usabambe inzondo kuye.

Ngaba kuyacaca kuwe ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umntu ongasathethi naye?


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