Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngomlilo?

Ukuba ufuna ukwazi Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngomlilo, kweli nqaku ndityhila zonke iinkcukacha. Ngokukodwa ehlotyeni, kwimimandla yehlathi imililo emininzi iyenzeka. Ukuba uhlala kwindawo ekufutshane ungaphupha ngomlilo ovela kubo kwaye kuya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo. Ngendlela efanayo, mhlawumbi ukhe wayibona kwikhaya lommelwane okanye endlwini yakho, ekunika amaphupha amabi ngoku. Kodwa ikwanazo nezinye iintsingiselo.

Ngokubanzi, iphupha elinemililo liveliswa engqondweni yakho ngenxa yoko Ukuphila ixesha loxinzelelo, uxinzelelo emsebenzini okanye kwiimviwo okanye lunokuveliswa kukuphulukana nento ethandwa kakhulu.Ingaba sisiphumo sokubona ukuba ixesha liphoswa kuwe ngumsitho kwaye urhaxwa ngumsi womlilo.

Kodwa kukho amanye amaphupha otoliko ngokuxhomekeke kumxholo oveliswe yi-subconscious, kuba ayifani ukuba uhlupheka umlilo ehlathini okanye uphupha ngomlilo endlwini yakho okanye kwindlu yommelwane, okanye ukuba ubona umsi omninzi oveliswa kukuqhushumba okunamandla. Mhlawumbi indawo yakho yokusebenza, isakhiwo esingahleliwe okanye isitalato sitshisiwe kwaye ekugqibeleni siyacinywa yimvula. Ke ndifuna ukuba ufunde onke amathuba ukuze ufumane ukutolikwa okufanelekileyo.

Iyintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha ngomlilo?

Ukongeza ekuhlalutyeni iimeko ezenzeka ngexesha lephupha, kuya kufuneka ujonge Isimo osithathileyo ebusweni bomlilo. I-Oneirology ithetha lukhulu ngendlela oziphethe ngayo, ukuba uzama ukuyicima okanye ubaleke ukuze ungazitshisi ngamadangatye.

Ngaba ubize abacima mlilo wasinda okanye watshiswa? Uqale ngantoni umlilo? Ngaba ubungunobangela, ingozi ngokuphosa umdiza ovuthayo okanye ngaba ubangelwe ngumlilo? Nazi ukutolikwa rhoqo.

Ukuphupha ngomlilo wehlathi ehlathini

Kusenokuthetha ukuba ihlathi elikufutshane nekhaya lakho lisandula ukutshisa okanye ubone imithi emininzi isitsha ezindabeni ngexesha lonyaka. Oko kunokubangela amaphupha amabi. Ukuba ibingeyonjongo yale kwaye kananjalo ukuba umlilo mkhulu kakhulu, itolikwa njengokuba kunjalo ukubandezeleka ixesha loxinzelelo olukhulu. Kuya kufuneka uqhubele phambili iprojekthi kwaye ubone ukuba awufikeleli kumhla obekiweyo, veza umsebenzi okanye uthathe uviwo eklasini.

Uyabona indlela umlilo wehlathi otshisa ngayo lonke utyani kwaye usondela kuwe. Ukuba uzama ukuyicima okanye utsalele umnxeba isebe lomlilo, oko kubonisa ukuba eyakho Amandla amakhulu kakhulu ukoyisa eli nqanaba ngempumelelo. Endaweni yoko, ukuba uzama ukuphuma nje, ubaleka uloyiko lwakho. Yilwa uze womelele!

Ukuphupha ngomlilo onomsi omninzi

Ukuphupha ngomlilo onomsi omninzi kuthetha ukuba uyoyika ikamva. Uyibona "inamafu" okanye iyatshaya ngenxa yokuba uziva usoyika ukusilela kule nto uyicebisileyo. Kananjalo, ukuba uqaphela ukuba umsi uyakutshonisa kwaye umlilo uyakutshisa ephupheni, oko kuthetha ukuba unoxinzelelo kakhulu ngenxa yokuphelelwa lithemba.

Ukugqitha kobu buhlungu xelela uloyiko lwakho kumntu omthembileyo kwaye musa ukuba neentloni ngokucela iingcebiso. Iintsuku ezimbalwa zokuphumla elwandle okanye kude nendawo engaphaya kwamandla akho kunokuhlala kukunceda.

Iphupha lomlilo ekhaya

Ukuphupha ngomlilo wendlu kutolikwa kunye iingxaki zentsapho okanye kwiimeko zoxinzelelo ezifumaneke mva nje. Ukuba umlilo uvelisa udubulo oluvusa wena emva koko kuthetha ukuba uneengxaki ezinzulu neqabane lakho, abantwana bakho okanye elinye ilungu losapho.

Mhlawumbi unobuntu obundlongondlongo, obangela uxinzelelo kunye "nokudubula komlilo" ngelixa ulele. Amalangatye ajikeleze umgangatho wakho ngumqondiso woxinzelelo kuloo ndlu, ngokutsho kweengcali kwi-psychoanalysis.

Ndiphupha umsebenzi usitsha

Ngaba umlilo uqalile emsebenzini? Ke iingxaki azilusapho kodwa ziyasebenza. Ukuphupha ngomlilo omkhulu emsebenzini oko kuthetha ukuba uyoyika ukugxothwa, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba wenze iimpazamo ezininzi. Ukuba unenkampani, inokutolikwa njengokuba uloyiko lokungabinamali luhlasela i-subconscious yakho.

Ukuba awufuni ukulahla ishishini lakho ephupheni uya kubonakala ucima umlilo. Ukuba ngequbuliso ubona imvula icima umlilo, oko kubonisa ukuba amaxhala akho awafanelekanga kwaye imeko ibhetele kakhulu kunokuba ucinga. Kwimeko apho, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha imvula.

Iphupha lomlilo esitratweni

Ingaba umlilo wenzekile esitalatweni okanye kwisakhiwo sangaphandle? Mhlawumbi imoto okanye isithuthuthu siyatsha? Kwindlu engummelwane okanye ecaweni (jonga kwi-onirology ye iphupha lecawa eyonakeleyo)? Akukho nkcazo inye yeli phupha. Okunokwenzeka ukhumbula umlilo owenzekileyo, mhlawumbi icinyiwe ngamanzi enkosi kwicandelo lomlilo, mhlawumbi hayi.

Ukuphupha ndingumtshisi

Ukhe waphupha ngomlilo obangelwe ngumlilo otshisileyo? Ukuba ubunguye otshisayo othe wabangela amadangatye kunye nokudubula, intsingiselo yile kakubi kakhulu. Imele ukuba unomphefumlo onomona, ogcwele ubushushu kunye nomlilo (funda ngakumbi malunga iphupha lomlilo), Ngomoya wokuziphindezela. Kungenzeka ukuba wenze ngaphandle kokucinga ngezenzo zakho kwaye ke ubangele ezi ngozi, kwaye ekugqibeleni uphathe kabuhlungu abantu obathandayo.

Ividiyo ngentsingiselo yokuphupha umlilo

Ukuba eli nqaku malunga Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngomlilo, emva koko ndincoma ukuba ubone amanye amanqaku ahambelana nawo kudidi lwe amaphupha ngonobumba I.