Zvinorevei kurota uchishambira?

Zvinorevei kurota uchishambira

ari hope dzekushambira dzimwe nguva zvinogadzirwa zvega uye zvinogona kuitika mune chero munhu uye, kazhinji, zvinoratidza kudiwa kwekungwarira nehunhu hwako. Kushambira chiito chevanhu chinoenderana nekududzirwa kwakawanda. Munyika yekurota, avo vanhu vanoita kushambira kazhinji vane mukana wekuti vave nerudzi urwu rwekurota, pamwe neavo vane dziva kana kuenda kugungwa. Zvinogoneka kuti kurota uku kunoita sekusanzwisisika kwauri kana kuti unozvibatanidza nechimwe chinhu chawakararama nguva pfupi yadarika.

Chero zvazvingava, iwe unozorota nezvechimwe chinhu, kunyangwe kana iwe usiri kurangarira, uye iwo mufungo wakagadzirwa mune kusaziva rine chirevo chinogona kududzirwa. Ndokusaka nhasi ndiri kunyora chinyorwa ichi nezve zviroto zvine chekuita nekushambira uye dzese dudziro dzinogoneka zvichienderana nemamiriro azvo.

Zvinoreva kurota zvekushambira

Si Iwe hauzive kushambira asi iwe wakarota kuti iwe uri kuzviita uye unonyuraZvinoreva kuti rimwe dambudziko rakakutenderedza uye pasi pasi iwe unozviziva, sekuoma kwekubhadhara chikwereti. Kana iwe ukarota uchishambira mumvura yakadzika kwazvo, zvinoreva kuti wapinda murima danho rehupenyu hwako, edza kuzvikunda nekukurumidza sezvazvinogona.

Kana iwe wakarota kuti iwe unodzidza kushambira, inomiririra hunhu hwakazvimirira, kuti iwe unokwanisa kudzidza wega, kuti haudi vamwe vapone uye uchaita zvakanaka kwazvo mune ramangwana. Kana iwe ukarota kuti unoshambira mugungwa asi iwe ukasuduruka kubva kumahombekombe uye iwe usingazive kudzoka Panzvimbo yakasimba, zvinoreva kuti hausi kuita sarudzo dzakanaka, unofanirwa kumira kuti utarise nhanho dzinotevera dzauchazotora usati wawedzera matambudziko ako. Asi, kana tikarota kushambira mune yakajeka kana yekristaro mvura (verenga zvakawanda nezve kurota kwekristaro yakajeka mvura), zvinoreva kuti iwe uri munzira chaiyo uye matambudziko akakomba akanetseka kuti uri kugadziriswa nehungwaru uye ivo vachakurumidza kupera.

Zvinorevei kurota uchishambira

Wanga uchinyura here? Iwe unonzwa kuti kukundikana kuri kuswedera, iwe unofunga kuti iwe uri munhu ane rombo rakaipa, asina mufaro. Iwe unofanirwa kuchinja maitiro ako munguva pfupi usati waomesa zvese. ¿Iwe unorota kuti iwe unozviwana iwe pachako uchishambira mugungwa rakadzikama (dzidza zvakawanda nezve kududzirwa kwekurota nezvegungwa)? Uri kuenda padanho rekuzadzikiswa, urikuita mushe mushe, rudo uye hutano. Nakidzwa nemufaro. Asi, kana gungwa rakaomararaZvinoreva izvo zvinopesana: mune zvemari iwe urikupfuura nenguva dzakaipa, zvehunyanzvi hausi kubudirira uye basa rako riri munjodzi, ndosaka kushungurudzika kunorembera pamusoro pemafungiro ako nenzira yehusiku.

Kana iwe ukarota uchishambira mumvura yakajeka uye iwe unongowira murudo, zvinoreva kuti iwe wawana mumwe wako mumweya, rucheno rwerudo rwapinda mumoyo mako uye urikupfuura nenguva inofadza kwazvo. Kana muhope iwe waikwikwidza mumutambo wekushambira, zvinoreva kuyedza uye kuyedza kwauri kuita kuti ubudirire. Kunyangwe iri kumberi kukambaira, shavishavi, backstroke kana chipfuva, inomiririra mashura akanaka anoratidza kukosha kwako.

Nekudaro, kana iwe ukaona iwe uchirasikirwa nhangemutange nemusiyano mukuru, zvinoreva kuti hausi kushanda nesimba zvakakwana kuti uwane mibairo mune ramangwana.

Kana iwe wakarota kuti iwe unoshambira kuponesa hupenyu hwako munhu anonyura murwizi (onawo zvinoreva zvinoreva kurota nezverwizi), inoti nezvako kuti une rupo uye une hanya nevadikani vako.

Wanga uri kurota sei? Nei wanga uchishambira? Wakamupa kududzira kupi? Vaverengi vachada kuve nemimwe mapoinzi ekuona kuti vatore mhedzisiro yavo.

Kana ichi chinyorwa nezve kurota kwekushambira, ipapo ini ndinokurudzira kuti iwe uverenge zvakafanana muchikamu che zviroto zvinotanga naN.


? bhuku rezvinyorwa

Ruzivo rwese nezve zvinoreva uye kududzirwa kwechiroto ichi rakagadzirirwa pachishandiswa rine mukurumbira bhuku rakagadzirwa nevanotungamira masayendisiti uye nyanzvi mumunda senge Sigmund Freud, Carl Gustav Jung kana Mary Ann Mattoon. Unogona kuona zvese ruzivo rweiyo chaiyo mabhuku ekunyora nekudzvanya apa.

2 zvataurwa pamusoro "Zvinorevei kurota uchishambira?"

  1. Ndakarota ndichishambira mugungwa raifara neshamwari dzangu uye ini ndakapedzisira ndavarova kamwe kamwe

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  2. Sawa,
    Ini ndakarota kuti ndakabuda ndichishambira uye ndichifemera pamusoro penzvimbo yedziva nemvura yakadzikama uye yakachena?
    Mukurota ndainzwa manzwiro ekuve nekwaniso yekuve pasi pemvura kufema!

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